Cheryl - Thank you for the kind words....I know I - and I know Lovina would feel the same way - would feel "funny" about just "taking a donation."   The little items you get in return are not terribly expensive to produce but are fun keepsakes for fans of the column to have......so we'd appreciate everyone accepting the items that go with the "friend club."   Also, donations online go to the column, Lovina, etc and not to the website...the website, column, everyone is inseparably "one."   I've had people inquire: does Lovina benefit from the "Friends Club."  My answer: ABSOLUTELY.  I would be THRILLED to be able to pay her more for efforts, so the funds are spread out to help keep the column operational, pay Lovina more, upkeep for the column and website, etc....Hope that helps.  Thanks! - Kevin